Can’t Shake Your Ex? Get the Spiritual Tea From a Love Psychic
Here’s what I’ve learned from giving thousands of readings…
Okay, let’s talk about that ex who keeps popping into your head at the most random moments. Maybe you’re grabbing coffee, folding laundry, or finally having a great day when — BOOM — there they are again, taking up real estate in your mind.
And before you close this tab thinking “great, another post telling me to sage my room and chant affirmations” — stick with me. After thousands of readings, I’m here to keep it real with you about what’s actually going on.
1. Your Brain Isn’t Broken (Promise)
First things first — you’re not losing it. That random urge to check their Instagram? Those dreams that feel weirdly real?
That’s NOT weakness! It’s your intuition trying to get your attention. And trust me, it’s usually NOT about what you think it’s about.
2. There’s Unfinished Business (But Not The Kind You Think)
Here’s what I tell my clients during readings: that ex taking up space in your head isn’t about getting back together.
It’s about what that relationship came to teach you. Yeah, I know — not the romantic answer you were hoping for. But stay with me.
Think about it:
- What patterns keep showing up in your relationships?
- What part of that relationship still gets under your skin?
- What feels unresolved, even after all this time?
THAT’S where the real gold is hiding.
3. The Growth Plot Twist
Real talk? Sometimes that ex is stuck in your head because you’re leveling up in life. It’s like your mind is doing a relationship retrospective, showing you how far you’ve come.
Those random thoughts? They’re actually progress markers, not setbacks.
4. The Mirror Moment
Let me tell you what I see in readings all the time — that thing that drives you CRAZY about your ex? It’s usually pointing to something you need to heal in yourself. I know, I know. Nobody likes hearing this part. But this is where the real magic happens.
5. The Timing Thing
Sometimes, you can’t shake them because there’s something you need to understand RIGHT NOW. Not a year ago, not next month. Now.
Your intuition has impeccable timing, even when we think it’s being a pain in the butt.
What To Do About It
Look, I could tell you to meditate and journal (which, yeah, actually helps), but here’s what you really need to know…
This connection? It’s trying to show you something about yourself. Not about them. Not about getting back together. About YOU.
And sometimes you need someone to help you see the full picture. That’s literally why I do what I do. I’ve helped hundreds of women understand what these persistent thoughts actually mean, without the fluffy spiritual bypass nonsense.
If you’re:
- Tired of wondering “why them, why now?”
- Ready to understand what this is REALLY about
- Looking for actual answers (not just “everything happens for a reason”)
Let’s talk. I do straight-to-the-point readings on Keen where we can get to the bottom of this. Or if you prefer to process things in writing, you can book an email reading through Ko-fi. ❤️
Because here’s the truth — that ex might be living rent-free in your head right now, but you get to decide what to do with that information. And sometimes you just need someone to help you see the situation clearly.
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P.S. No sage was burned in the writing of this post. Just straight-up insights from someone who GETS it.
